Love is a battle, because you're always going to end up with scars...
It's accepting things for the good of that person even if it hurts you.... Even if you fight it every once and a while...
Knowing that no matter what happens between the two of you he will always be that special someone you hold in your heart for the rest of your life....
When it's so hard to explain everything your feeling because the words are all jumbled up inside and the only way to say it is with your eyes....
It's when you compare every single guy you see to the one you love.... And every couple to the two of you....
Love is when you know that if you didn't spend the rest of your life with that person you'd be a nobody...that you'd die without them
It's when you kiss them everything around you becomes hazy and the only thing you can focus on is him, and in that instant you realize that he is the one you're supposed to be kissing for the rest of your life and you want to laugh and cry all at the same time because you feel so lucky yet so scared
It's when you can say anything to that person and know they won't laugh....
When you can see their face when you close your eyes, and smell them all the time....
When you can still feel their arms around you weeks after the last time you were with them....
When you can still taste their kiss when the thought of them crosses your mind, when you miss them when they haven't even left yet, when their voice lingers in your ears and your so afraid that it might disappear, when his presence eases any and all pain *my all time favorites.
When his name sends chills down your spine
When he is the first thing you think of in the morning.... The last thing on your mind at night, And the only thing on your mind in between
It's when you can look into his eyes and see all his hopes and dreams
When you're on the phone all night saying absolutely nothing but don't want to hang up because you want to hear him breathe, and when you hear him say "i love you" and know he means it cause of the sincerity of his voice
When your/his tears not only stain his shirt but his heart
When the simplest thing can turn into a lasting memory
When you don't remember how you ever lived with out them
Thinking of him is like breathing.... Its just one of those things you do. He is your air
Love is when your family and friends are ready to put you in the looney bin because they have either stopped believing in love, or forgotten what it is like to be in love...
It's caring for him so much that you think you'll die then multiply that but infinity and then takes it to the bottom of the deepest part of the ocean...
It's when you would marry that person yesterday...So to say
It's when you fall in love all over again just thinking about him and remembering all the memories you have made with him. Those memories last forever. You sit there and think about all the times you were side by side...Hand in hand.
It's when you can feel their presence when you close your eyes.... But when you go to reach for them you feel them slipping away... And then your memory fades away...
Basically love is all about risks, love is all pain, but love is all-good. It's like bungee jumping you just have to hope the cord doesn't break but that's about it. Dr. Clarence Rucker, Jr. PhD FC CCJP ICCS www.heavenn.us
Dr. Clarence Rucker, Jr., of Detroit has found his way as an Elocutionist. He is hailed as one of the great Evangelistic voices. He is a Poet, Educator, Author, Civil Rights Activist and Viet Nam Era Veteran. His travels spread the gospel, “From Dust, To Life, To Power.” (Detroit College of Business, to Wayne State University: to Calvary Theological Seminary, and Cornerstone University.)
His book, “Heaven At Its Best” has altered the love relationship of many. It is a love story that rivaled Solomon and the Shulamite Maiden. It can be ordered at any book store.
uhmmm, the Dr. Clarence Rucker who leaves comments is and has been a member of Searchwarp for some time - most fascinating article and interesting that it is written from the viewpoint of a woman; loving how you sealed the write about infatuation more so than love as love has depth and meaning and comes in many forms but most definitely can be all about risks and with openness of heart. It certainly makes the world go round and is one of God's greatest gifts.
I totally agree that love is all about risk. In today's world there are many examples of failed relationships. But, if you want to really experience love, you have to experience the pain at the same time...
I happen to have one of those "soulmates" and i know from whence you speak.
it's comforting going through this troubled life with someone you can trust and love and have fun with, and yet, weather the storms, because there will always be storms. thanks for a great article,
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