If you want to learn how to get a hot girlfriend even if you are not a hot guy then you are about to learn what most men do not. Women are not attracted to men the same way men are attracted to women. Let me repeat that because it is very important to elevating your game to the next level. Women do not choose to be attracted to you. They either are or they are not. Sometimes a woman will initially NOT be attracted to you, but then she finds herself attracted to you. What gives?
Women become attracted to men on many different levels. The way you carry yourself, the sound of your voice, how you smell, and the power and congruency of your personality. Did you know that most women do not even rank physical looks in the top 3 qualities that a man must have? It's because most women value other things such as loyalty, knowing when to lead, confidence, being comfortable in your skin, having a plan for your life, having a passion about something, etc.
I have found that I attract more women to me when I am NOT trying to attract them. So today I no longer try, I just AM. If you can understand this principle then you will no longer have to "work" hard at finding attractive women. You just have to be willing to work at it. For some men, the word w-o-r-k is a dirty four-letter word, but that word will set you free.
If you want to get a hot girlfriend then you will first want to write down EXACTLY the type of woman you want in your life. Write down what she looks like, what kind of sense of humor she has, what her temperament is like, etc. Then take an index card and write down WHEN you are going to find her. When I first did this exercise about ten years ago I gave myself one year (I found her in less than 3 months). Then write down the 2, 3, or 4 things you are going to do every single day or week to make sure that it happens. For example, on my index card I wrote down that I would approach one woman that I did not know every single day. My second bullet point was that I would read one infoproduct about meeting women and pick up every month. On my third bullet point I wrote down that once every other week I would plan and organize a happy hour with my friends and co-workers. My last bullet point I wrote the following: "rejection does not exist."
I read that stupid index card every single day. And it turned out to be one of the best investments in myself I have ever made. In less than 90 days I ended going out on a few dates and I ended up with the hottest girl I had ever been with up until that point. We stayed together for five years. Studies have proven time and time again that if you write something down and review it daily, the odds of it coming true go up drastically!
So what are you waiting for? Where's your index card?
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Rod Cortez is a dating coach who overcame his own shyness and anxiety attacks by utilizing his own personal power and creating methods for meeting, talking to, and dating attractive women. His FREE newsletter has helped men in dozens of countries around the world: http://TheDatePro.com
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