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Marriage and a partner are not what you should plan on making you happy. There is a movie called "Jerry Maguire" where there is a line "you complete me," which is kind of what some people want to hear.
A lot may think they can't live without the other person, this is common in the beginning. But what makes a successful relationship is two people who've become emotionally grown up on their own and then meeting some one who is also emotionally grown up. This means you really will have something to offer instead of being a burden.
A good stable, healthy relationship begins with stable, healthy individuals; two people who enjoy being together, maybe perhaps even all the time, but not because they are afraid to be alone. Not because they can't go on without the other person, and certainly not because they are making each other a whole person. This is just not a recipe for success.
When you determine what it takes to create happiness for yourself without a partner then you'll stop attracting the wrong people. As you see what you need for satisfaction and live your life not someone elses you'll become the person you want to be. As this evolution takes place the partner who's right for you will become known and they will fall into place in your life.
Remember it is not about finding the perfect person; it is about being the perfect person on your own. Work at attaining true happiness and peace in your life, and the right person will be there with you.
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