1 She is going on a cruise with her girlfriends and only tells you three days before the ship departs.
2 She complains that you never give her what she wants, and never have.
3 While together with you, she answers and makes cell phone calls, and talks at length, as through you were not even there.
4 She talks about how her parents don’t approve of the relationship because of your different religion or ethnic background.
5 She criticizes you with hurtful words, such as “stupid, dumb, immature, irresponsible, silly, not grown up, mama’s boy."
6 Or she stops all criticism, since she knows she’ll soon be gone (i.e., she stops complaining about you always leaving the toilet seat up).
7 She doesn’t spend time making herself pretty and dressing nicely for you.
8 She always used to want you to pay attention and listen to her now when you two talk, she doesn’t seem focused or really listening to you.
9 If you live together, she starts coming home later and is unenthusiastic when she gets home.
10 She stops taking you with her when she gets together with her friends or with her family.
11 Aside from sex, which may continue, she stops touching you and being playful out of bed.
12 You notice a US Post Office change of address packet on her bedside table.
13 If you do still see some of her friends, they don’t seem as lively and friendly, because they know you are shortly going to be history.
Do you have any other signs that you want to share with me?
Py Kim Conant, the author of Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man, from Hunter House, in October 2006. Visit her website at www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com
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